COME AS YOU ARE.
HEAL FROM within.
I’M IRIS.
I see therapy as a process, not a fix-it or a how-to. A homecoming. A discovery. A relationship that matters.
I work with people in the wake of trauma, deep in grief, feeling depleted, overwhelmed, or stuck. People longing for more peace and safety, and who are ready to make sense of their story. If you're here, that desire to reach out is already something. A glimmer of self-worth and a seed taking root.
I show up with warmth, hope, and a genuine belief that every person who walks through this door already carries what they need to thrive. To witness the unique unfolding of who you are is the honor of this work.
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Grief doesn't always get the space it deserves. Maybe your losses were minimized, or there was no safe place to name what you were carrying. Maybe you are feeling pressure to “move on” before you are ready.
Loss touches all of us and comes in many forms. You may be mourning a person, a pet, a job, or a relationship. Or you may be carrying something harder to explain — an accumulation of what you never received or what you hoped for and didn't get.
When we suppress our grief in order to keep functioning, our capacity for presence, joy, and connection also narrows. This work isn't about dwelling in loss. It's about dropping into it to reclaim your full range of human emotion.
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The past has a way of living in the body long after it's over. Parts of you learned to fight, flee, shut down, or shape yourself around what others needed to stay safe. These were brilliant adaptations, but somewhere along the way they became the default — making decisions feel impossible, keeping you braced for what's coming, pulling you away from the people and moments you most want to be present for. This work is about understanding these parts with curiosity rather than judgment, and slowly helping them relax their grip and release past hurts.
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Many people find it easy to offer compassion to others, and nearly impossible to turn it toward themselves. The idea of boundaries may feel selfish. Perfectionism keeps the bar just out of reach, and rest has to be earned.
However it arrived, shame has a way of coloring the way we treat ourselves and how close we let others get. The self-critic is often just shame doing its job — protecting something tender underneath.
We don't heal when we're in shame. This work is about meeting these parts with curiosity, understanding where the shame and self-critic came from, and slowly uncoupling your sense of worth from past experiences.
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Emotional unease takes many forms. The uproar of overwhelm and anxiety. The weight of low mood or a hum of dread that follows you through the day. You might find yourself powering through, yet still feeling a quiet ache or unrest beneath the surface. Like something is missing, or on edge.
Whether you're navigating mood disturbance or just know something feels off — it all deserves attention, and you don't have to be in crisis to need support. Sometimes the most important thing is simply that you are ready to feel different! This work can help you learn new ways to cope and restore a sense of vitality and emotional balance.
Maybe you’RE…
YOU WERE NEVER MEANT TO CARRY THIS alone.
However you've arrived, you are not broken. The ways you've coped, adapted, and kept going are not the problem — they are evidence of how hard you've been working to keep it together.
Therapy offers a chance to finally understand and be understood. A witness to a journey that is entirely your own.
Here, the goal isn't to become someone new. It's to reconnect with what has always been there, and to reclaim the parts of yourself that have been disregarded, cast away, or left without a voice.
Here’s how to get started
Reach out
You don't have to have it all figured out to take this first step. A free 20 minute consultation is a chance to share about what’s been going on for you, ask any questions you have, and get a feel for how I work.
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Lay the groundwork
Our first session is less about diving in and more about getting oriented together. I'll take time to understand what's bringing you in, begin to map the landscape of your inner world, and start establishing the foundation — the relationship, the resources, the sense of safety — that deeper work is built on.
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Notice what shifts
From there, we move at your own pace, on a path that is entirely yours. Gently and collaboratively, we begin to attend to the wounded, unresolved, and stuck places — the parts of you that have been waiting for attention. Healing is possible, and it begins here.